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Well, my husband and I are still looking to buy a house so I am hoping we manage one in the next few months. Houses come on the market and sell in just a few days so it is hard to even get a chance to see them and put and offer before *poof* they are gone!


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@debkatz78 | Posted08 Mar. 2022
Posted at: What do you hope happen to you soon?

This really depends on who you are asking. Traditional women will want the men to pay and the traditional men will want to pay. Modern women will either want to split or pay, and modern men tend to prefer to split. More women graduate college than ever before so I believe we will see a shift in top earners within the next 20 years where women are earning more than men on average. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted07 Mar. 2022
Posted at: Should you split the bill on a date or men should pay?

There has to be some sort of physical attraction. I don't care how kind-hearted a person is, if they don't have any physical attraction for the other person then intimacy will be a chore to them and their marriage would resemble a friendship more than anything. If both people are content with that though, then that is fine. I personally don't believe love is blind but comes in levels. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted07 Mar. 2022
Posted at: Do you believe that love is truly blind? Would you marry someone sight unseen?

Growing up with landlines, the cut-off time for most people who had young children was 9:30PM. Older children, it was usually 10:30PM. We all have cell phones these days so I feel like things are a lot different now. I think texting before you call is best though if it is past 10PM.


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@debkatz78 | Posted07 Mar. 2022
Posted at: How late is too late to call someone?

Some people can, most people can't. I think it depends on many factors. I think if you have children with someone, you should remain friends or at least be friendly for the sake of the children. If you don't have kids with them, you really have to consider how it could hold you back from potential future partners. Most people I know would not be okay with their partner being close with an ex.


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@debkatz78 | Posted06 Mar. 2022
Posted at: Do you believe in staying friends with exes?

I am seeing that. Prices seem to go up every few days. Our prices were just $3.30 a week ago and now they are $3.95. This is pretty scary. People are already struggling to make ends meet. I guess fertilizer cost will be going up as well for us since the US imports most of its supply from Ukraine and they stopped/halted trade of it. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted05 Mar. 2022
Posted at: Gasoline/Petrol Prices - Have they gone up by you?

For getting things done? It depends. Certain things I do better within the evening whilst other things I am better in the morning. I seldom am productive past 9PM. I tend to just want to relax at that point since I go to bed around midnight. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted05 Mar. 2022
Posted at: What time of the day works best for you?

Probably the internet. I spent a lot of time online now. More than I did growing up. I work online, I enjoy communications online, and I know when I don't have access to the internet I become irritable.  I can go out and not be bothered. I am not glued to my phone or anything but when I am home, if we lose internet for a while I get bored and it is sad. I need to fix this. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted04 Mar. 2022
Posted at: What`s your biggest addiction?

I feel that you should open the door or hold the door for anyone, it is just a nice gesture. I don't think it needs to be tied down to only men doing it. That being said, if I am going out on a special date with a man, I do expect him to do things like this. Maybe that is a double-standard, I don't know. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted04 Mar. 2022
Posted at: Should men open doors for women?

I don't think you can convert a gay person. They can't help who they are sexually attracted to. If conversion therapy worked, I think a lot of people who were gay when it was still viewed in a bad light would have done so. The only time this would work is if the person was bi and even then, they will still always have that attraction. To answer your question, no I would not. If I loved them I wouldn't want to change them.


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@debkatz78 | Posted04 Mar. 2022
Posted at: Would you try and convert a gay person if you fell head over heels in love with them?

I am prone to anxiety so if I have too much caffeine, I will have trouble. I get shaky and uneasy. I tend to drink coffee as an ingredient. I will drink things that have coffee in them but a very small amount. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted03 Mar. 2022
Posted at: How does coffee make you feel?

The Shawshank Redemption is mine. It has a bit of everything and all the amazing actors. I am a huge fan of Morgan Freeman so I may be biased but it seems to be rated and considered the best movie ever made. I am not big into movies either. I prefer TV series. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted03 Mar. 2022
Posted at: What`s the best movie you have ever seen? Why is it your best?

I am really fussy about where I eat when outdoors because I don't like bugs being around. So for me, a planned picnic would have to involve a table. I guess I would start by finding a nice park setting where there are some of those outdoor table benches. I know a lot of people who would not enjoy sitting on the ground as well be it because of bugs or issues with pain (bad back, knees, etc.). 


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@debkatz78 | Posted02 Mar. 2022
Posted at: If you were to, how would you plan a picnic out?

My husband is not flirty in nature so if he started doing it, especially with me there with him then I think we'd have A LOT of problems in our marriage that would need to be addressed. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted02 Mar. 2022
Posted at: What would do if your partner flirts with other women while you are out together?

I am not sure there has been one thing that has stood out to me. Sadly, I don't remember the good things as well as the bad. I think that is an issue for all of us though. I will have to think about this more in order to answer it. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted02 Mar. 2022
Posted at: What`s one of the nicest things someone has ever said to you?

I am big on sharing. I have been since I was little. It actually makes me feel good to share so that is something I do to express I care about someone. Outside of that, I like to just be there for people and help them do things I know I can. Sometimes this has backfired where I have been taken advantage of but I don't stop doing it because a few people thought to take for themselves and use me. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted02 Mar. 2022
Posted at: How do you express your love?

Having a crush is almost always based on physical attraction. When you have a crush on someone, it is a motive of lust. Most relationships do start this way and there is nothing wrong with it. Love takes time. Love happens when you know the person more and you feel a deeper connection that is beyond physical. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted02 Mar. 2022
Posted at: How is a crush different from being in love ?

The nicest way to end a conversation in an honest way is to just say that you have other things to get to. Most people who want to end a conversation do have something else they need or want to put their attention on. Most people will understand and end the conversation. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted28 Feb. 2022
Posted at: How do you (politely)end a conversation when someone won't stop talking?

I feel like it would be heartbreaking to outlive the people you love and experience loss over and over again. I think the only way I would be okay with this is if I didn't age, experience health complications (severe ones), and I was able to keep the people I connect to alive with me. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted28 Feb. 2022
Posted at: Would you want to live forever if you could?

It depends. I have lost trust in family members and friends and have gained it back for them. They had to earn it but it was possible. When it comes to relationships though, no. Once my trust is broken then I simply can't just undo that. I view them very differently and in order to forgive them I need to move on and end the relationship. 


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@debkatz78 | Posted28 Feb. 2022
Posted at: Can trust once lost ever be regained?