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I think I'm 50/50 on it. Part of me loves the advancement of tech and the world we live in, but another side of me worries about the need for these techs. We're seeing people addicted to the web, arguing for days in Facebook comment sections, and going out into the real world to act up. I love tech, but there are problems with it. Addiction is a big concern of mine, especially when I see it in myself. I am addicted to looking at my phone, looking at Instagram Reels, and watching... (Read Full Comment)


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@RyanM | 12 Dec. 2021
Posted at: Do you think we are heading down a bad path in terms of technology?

Like criminals and abusers? I think most of them get caught and face real justice, but there are some who don't face that justice like they should. Sadly many do get through the cracks of the court system and often get away with their crimes. I don't necessarily believe that karma gets everyone, but I think sometimes they bring karma upon themselves. 


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@RyanM | Posted09 Dec. 2021
Posted at: Do you think that baddies(villains) get real justice?

I don't think I'd go to jail for anyone aside from close family. I mean, putting yourself in jail for your best friend, doesn't seem all that fair. Even if we're good friends, I don't think I'd go to jail for them, because what does that mean for them? Do they get to live life outside of jail? Are you the one stuck paying for his/her crime? It really makes no sense to me. I would only do it if it was a child of mine, or my girlfriend. We are all adults, and the mistakes we make,... (Read Full Comment)


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@RyanM | Posted09 Dec. 2021
Posted at: Would you go to jail for your best friend?

Well no considering I am currently with someone. I wouldn't change that either. If they're an ex, it's either my choosing, or they left me. If they leave me, I see no point in ever going back. If I was single and all that, maybe if she was a good person, but I don't think I'd ever go back to any of my exes, even if I was single. 


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@RyanM | Posted07 Dec. 2021
Posted at: What would you do if your ex wants to spend Christmas with you?

It's considered tradition for a lot of people and still happens today, but you're by no means forced to have your last name changed if you don't want to. You could keep your last name if you want and still be married. It's really a choice of preference these days. If my girl wants to take my name, I'll be cool with that. But if she doesn't want it. I'm cool with that too. 


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@RyanM | Posted06 Dec. 2021
Posted at: Should married couples be required to have the same surname?

I honestly don't know. I think that's for the receiver to decide if anything. Some gifts may not be perceived as thoughtful or anything else. Some people will thank you for the gift and be it. But, I think depending on the type of gift, some will find it more thoughtful. But in terms of my own feelings, I think getting anything I'd like would be thoughtful enough. Just any gift would be nice for me. 


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@RyanM | Posted06 Dec. 2021
Posted at: What do you think is the most thoughtful Christmas gift?

Depends on the food and beverage. I know with milk, as long as it's cold, it can last for days or even a week or more after the due date. Some other foods are known to be fine after a few days to a week. Just keep smelling the food and keeping an eye out for any mold. Anything to do with meat, will degrade much more faster, so you'd want to eat that up faster. 


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@RyanM | Posted04 Dec. 2021
Posted at: Do you eat food that is past its expiration date if it still smells and looks good?

For me, I never really picked my friends. Usually it was going to school, and I became friends with people who were in my class. So in a weird way, we make friends with people where we go. For me, I just like having friends who are funny, fun to hang out with, are smart, kind etc. As long as we respect one another, that's that. 


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@RyanM | Posted02 Dec. 2021
Posted at: How do you pick your friends? What qualities do you look out for or avoid?

I have been lied to by a lot of people, just the same that I have also lied to people too. It unfortunately happens. Parents lie about Santa and other such things. I've been lied to by friends, best friends, girlfriends, and so on. I've been lied to by the media, by the stars, by others. Lying is a part of our culture sadly. But yes, I've been lied to by a lot of people in my life. 


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@RyanM | Posted02 Dec. 2021
Posted at: Have you ever been lied to by someone you trusted?

Never! lol just kidding. But in all seriousness, when my future kids get to that age where they want to start dating. I will let them when they are ready. It's hard to say when the time is right, because I or my future wife couldn't say. I think most kids date around the age of 10 and up. But mostly in the teenage years is when kids start to really date. I know I'd be scared of my future daughter or son going out there and dating at a really young age, but when the time comes, all you can... (Read Full Comment)


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@RyanM | Posted30 Nov. 2021
Posted at: What age do you think is right for a youth to start dating?

@debkatz78 - Oh for sure, being rid of bugs for a few months or more, is nice. I can't stand bugs and that time is so great not having to deal with them. But, you can still get other creepy crawlies in your home during the winter season, spiders especially. As for what I like best about winter, idk, I suppose I'd say it's a tease towards the holidays, towards Christmas for me. I am not a fan of it most of the time, due to it being annoying to shovel, and of course the cold. But it is... (Read Full Comment)


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@RyanM | Posted28 Nov. 2021
Posted at: What do you like best about winters?

Yeah sure. I love the sims. I haven't played it in quite a while, but I last played the Sims 3 on the 360 a while back. Had some fun with it, but I didn't play too long. I wanted to play longer, but I figure I might just try the Sims 4 instead, as I think that's currently on game pass right now. Might be worth getting it to play that. :) 


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@RyanM | Posted28 Nov. 2021
Posted at: Does anyone here play the Sims?

Honestly, I think it can be left behind, at least mentally you can forget it more and more. For example, I think when we deal with bad things in our past, they tend to haunt us for a while. But, there are times where you just accept it and move on as best you can. Eventually the past tends to be forgotten, good and bad. I think time heals all wounds, and honestly that's the best way I can put it. There is still a chance for hurt to come from the past, but eventually you will start to worry less... (Read Full Comment)


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@RyanM | Posted25 Nov. 2021
Posted at: Can one really leave the past behind?

Well that depends on the situation I think. Sometimes I would understand if my girlfriend went to her parents for advice. Honestly I would go to her parents for advice myself. I think when it comes to our parents, they do provide a much needed knowledge of life, and asking them questions isn't something I see a problem with. Even if she was asking for advice in regards to us, I'm okay with that. Because who better than her own parents? Parents love to help honestly. I've gone to my parents for... (Read Full Comment)


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@RyanM | Posted24 Nov. 2021
Posted at: What would you do if your partner or spouse goes to their parents for advice rather than to you?

Depends on the situation, but I think more often than not, I prefer not to date someone who has cheated on me more than once. If it is a one time thing, I may consider taking a chance on her again, but a second time, and I then know she isn't for me. I can't date someone who uses me like that. To cheat on me with another and then not break up with me first, is just messed up to me. If you ever decide to cheat on someone, leave them. It's better that way. I think for many other things, like... (Read Full Comment)


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@RyanM | Posted24 Nov. 2021
Posted at: How many chances do you give a person?

That's a good question. A peaceful day for me, would probably be to sitting down at my PC, playing games and having Spotify blasting some of my favorite music. But, I also enjoy days off where I just relax, sleep or listen to music while I attempt to relax and sleep. I wish I had an area I could go where I can see the sun go down for the day, or even see the sun rise. That'd be relaxing. :)


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@RyanM | Posted22 Nov. 2021
Posted at: What would a peaceful day look like in your eyes?

It's really not as cut and dry as you'd think. When you are trying to get over someone, it's easier said than done. Because either way you put it, there was probably some kind of love involved, so no matter what, it will be tough to move on. Some people won't want to move on, and some will move on faster than others. Sometimes you just never get over them. You will always have love for your previous partners, I know I do. All you can really do, is hope for the best and maybe one day to... (Read Full Comment)


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@RyanM | Posted20 Nov. 2021
Posted at: What are the ways of getting over someone?

I think at a certain point, you'd just move on. And honestly, I don't think we're deserved an explanation if it was just the start of something. Now, if it was something where you two were talking for months, or even years. Then I would understand, but if it was someone I chatted with for a little bit, and then she went dark, I would just move on. If she comes back and chats, cool, but I don't think I'm owed an explanation as to where she was. Sure you can ask why she/he went dark for so... (Read Full Comment)


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@RyanM | Posted20 Nov. 2021
Posted at: What would you do if someone ghosts you and hits you up months later with zero explanation?

Honestly, I don't know if I could leave earth. I think the idea of going to space would be cool at first, but the limitations once you get there, would be too much for me. I doubt civilizations would be thriving in space right away. I assume it would be a lot of work for those going to space, as they will have to do the work building new homes, towns, etc. If I got to choose, I'd stay on earth. 


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@RyanM | Posted18 Nov. 2021
Posted at: If we were told half the people on the planet would have to leave, would you go?

For me it is probably listening to music. I find that most of the time, music will relax me and calm me down. It doesn't always help with the depression, but it can help from time to time. I also enjoy watching a movie or playing a video game, that will often take my mind off of it too. 


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@RyanM | Posted16 Nov. 2021
Posted at: What makes you feel better when you are angry or depressed?