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What would you do if someone ghosts you and hits you up months later with zero explanation?   

#ghosting by friends


Avyanna Dream  Site Admin
@admin · Posted 18 Nov. 2021


Pritika Thakur
@pritika98 · Posted 18 Nov. 2021

I would demand an explanation after asking how they have been. If this person held an important place in my life, not only are they going to get loads of sarcasm from me, but I would expect a genuine apology from them too. Though this totally depends on the context after how they have been. If this pattern is consistent, I'd make it clear to them that I don't feel comfortable with people flying off the face of the earth and coming back eons later to discuss how it's been.


Osheen Sharma
@Osheen.Sharma · Posted 18 Nov. 2021

If it's been some months then I probably would not care about their response. I've moved on from whatever it was by then and if they don't have the grace to start with an explanation then I don't need them in my life. If someone were to offer a valid reason for falling off the face of the earth, I would happily let them back into my life or else it would be unfriend, remove and block all the way. I know it may not be the most mature way to handle conflict but it is the one that works best for me.


Ryan M
@RyanM · Posted 20 Nov. 2021

I think at a certain point, you'd just move on. And honestly, I don't think we're deserved an explanation if it was just the start of something. 

Now, if it was something where you two were talking for months, or even years. Then I would understand, but if it was someone I chatted with for a little bit, and then she went dark, I would just move on. If she comes back and chats, cool, but I don't think I'm owed an explanation as to where she was. Sure you can ask why she/he went dark for so long, but I don't think they have to answer you if they don't want to. 

Usually if someone goes dark on me, I just move on. Done it a few times, and each time I moved on. 

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