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What's the number one reason you will divorce or sever ties with your partner?   

#the reason i left my wife


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Avyanna Dream  Site Admin
@admin · Posted 16 Oct. 2021

There are tons of reasons like, cheating, nagging, overspending, violence, gambling, snoring, etc people would let go of their partners in a heartbeat. Cheating, without a doubt, takes the cake for me. 


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Osheen Sharma
@Osheen.Sharma · Posted 16 Oct. 2021

The number one thing for me would be violence, followed closely by cheating. These are the two things that I don't think can be forgiven. If you have issues with your partner's behavior, you can consider taking it out. One can reach a compromise on pretty much everything else, but if someone gets physically/mentally abusive, then I don't think there is any room for reconciliation. I know that some couples don't break up despite cheating, but I don't think I could do that. 

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Avyanna Dream  Site Admin
@admin · Posted 17 Oct. 2021

I’m with you on this one.  Violence of any kind is unacceptable. I’m at a loss as to why any man would be horribly cruel to his wife. I think one of the reasons spouses chose to stay with a violent partner is probably because they fear the abuse might get worse if they take flight. I have heard of some husbands who have threatened to mutilate or even kill their wife if she tried to bail. Some choose to stay put for financial reasons, and some others choose to stay because they want their kids to grow up with both parents. There are some who choose to stay praying and hoping the situation will improve.


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Debbie Katz Free Spirit
@debkatz78 · Posted 16 Oct. 2021

Unfaithfulness. I think violence should be at the top but being that I am married and there is not a violent bone in my husband's body, have to go with cheating and being unfaithful. I think most other things like addiction, debt, and so on can be worked through but cheating is something I know I wouldn't be able to move past. Same with violence. 

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Avyanna Dream  Site Admin
@admin · Posted 17 Oct. 2021

Sadly, most spouses think they can actually move past it for some known and unknown reasons. There are some that wrongly believe that they are to blame, which to me is beyond unbelievable.


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Bomb . Carpe Diem...
@bomb · Posted 17 Oct. 2021

For me, it is just trust. When trust is lost, it is very hard to get it back. It is possible to build it back over a long period. If you can trust your partner again, there is no need for divorce. But if you find building back the trust very hard, divorce will be a feasible alternative. 


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Mia Gomez
@miacol64 · Posted 18 Oct. 2021

Cheating would be the number one reason for me. I can't stand a cheating partner


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