Avyanna Dream Site Admin
@admin · Updated 02 Aug. 2021

Just like Debbie says, much of our happiness in marriage depends on what we put in and expect from it.  Marriage can be a richly satisfying way of life, especially if both couples are in love with each other. With marriage comes the bliss of intimacy and companionship of two humble people who are truly in love with each other. What more can you expect from marriage?  Well, I would say expect the unexpected. By unexpected, I mean, the unpleasant news, say when one of you falls sick and can’t perform his/her normal duties. Expect disappointment and conflict as well. Having said that, it`s not the problems you face that will break your marriage but how you deal with them. If you and your partner are truly determined to stay together, no matter what, you will be better able to handle the unexpected storms.

Marina
@M. · Posted 05 Aug. 2021

When I read your answer,I thought I should expect the unexpected.

If I get married I want to get over the storm someday.

Thank you.

Debbie Katz  Free Spirit
@debkatz78 · Posted 01 Aug. 2021

You can expect what you are willing to put in. Marriage is an investment not only in another person but in yourself. People like to assume marriage is easy or that it is just simply paperwork but it is a lifelong commitment (assuming you stay committed to it). When it comes to marriage if you have a healthy relationship (no trust issues, good communication, respect, etc.) you can expect to have someone that will be there for you. You can expect to have a desire to ensure they are happy because their happiness brings you joy. Good or bad times, you will have a partner in life, and let's face it, life can get pretty messy! 

Marina
@M. · Posted 04 Aug. 2021

I feel uneasy about living with different people…

It is important to feel that I 'm making the partner happy.

Thank you

Bomb . Carpe Diem...
@bomb · Posted 01 Aug. 2021

As they say "Marriage is not a bed of roses". I would say it is not easy, it requires concerted efforts of both partners. Things can go from wonderful to desperate i an few days. What must be nurtured in any marriage is trust. If you can be best friends with your partner and trust each other completely, you will reap the benefits of marriage.

Marina
@M. · Posted 04 Aug. 2021

It's important that we come to compromise with each other.

I want to marry someone I can trust, and I want to try to be trustworthy too.

Thank you.

Marina
@M. · Posted 02 Aug. 2021

It's important that we come to compromise with each other.I want to marry someone I can trust, and I want to try to be trustworthy too.Thank you.