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How do you let someone you know, you like them without being weird?   


Ryan M
@RyanM · Posted 16 Dec. 2020

There's this girl I really like. We went to highschool together and I had the biggest crush on her. I never made my move back then, but I always wish I had. Sadly, I never tried to ask her out ever since. It's been 10 years or so since I graduated high school, and she added me as a friend on facebook recently. This has renewed my interest in her and I'm starting to have those old feelings racing back again. We've been chatting lately as well, and she's currently single. I've been thinking about asking her out, or maybe doing a virtual hangout (due to covid) to just chat and reminisce. Anyway, how should I reveal my interest in her? Should I flat out say I've had a crush on her forever, and would like to go on a date or something? Any suggestions?


Avyanna Dream  Site Admin
@admin · Updated 17 Dec. 2020

  I have never been a proponent of letting things happen naturally when it comes to love and never will. If I got me something I wanna say(especially when I feel that the feelings could be mutual), I just say it and wait for the possible outcomes which is either ending up with my dream partner or losing my bestie for a while or for good, depending on whether I decide to win her back as my bestie if things go south. I never let feelings of love for someone especially someone that I know for a long while plus if I’m sure they are not seeing anyone else).eats me inside without letting them know how I feel.


Bomb . Carpe Diem...
@bomb · Posted 16 Dec. 2020

You dont. You just act in a manner that will help lead him or here to that ideas. Let it grow by itself. Let it come naturally. Saying it may go wrong, because it may be premature for the both of you. You may not be ready for the answers (both yes and no). 


Mathews James
@Mathews · Posted 17 Dec. 2020

I don't think giving it a shot is a bad idea at all. Who knows she might be feeling the same way about you all this time, but waiting for you like most women do to break the ice? Keeping it to yourself will kill you inside, it's better to pour it out and see what happens. Anyway, good luck, you might need it. 


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@LouieA30 · Posted 17 Dec. 2020

Im a student, and I am always shy on how could I approach my crush and tell him that I love him. Like this thread must be boosted, because I want to know how could I tell him that I like him without feeling weird. 

My feelings for him is already 4 years, but he doesn't even know that I do like him. Lol

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