@ssonalese · Posted 26 Dec. 2021
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@debkatz78 · Posted 26 Dec. 2021
Absolutely not. If someone requires you to get in bed with them before they can enjoy your company, they are not looking for a relationship or they are just being selfish. I believe it is worth waiting to make sure you are compatible with someone as sex always brings the risk of pregnancy. The last thing you want is to have a child with someone who you are not compatible with.
@ssonalese · Posted 28 Dec. 2021
Thank you so much for your answer.
@Osheen.Sharma · Posted 28 Dec. 2021
I think the logic here is backwards. You need to like someone to sleep with them as far as I know and sex certainly is not a good way of getting to know someone new. That being said, if this is something that you want to do then go ahead, but sleeping with someone just to please them is not a good idea. Sex is not something that is done to you, it isn't transactional. Sex is an activity two consenting adults indulge in and that is how it should be viewed.
@pritika98 · Posted 29 Dec. 2021
You've taken the words right out of my mouth. I couldn't agree more with what you've said. If sleeping with them is the precedent for a relationship, then there's not much to look forward to except selfishness, to be honest. Relationships aren't supposed to be formed on business deals.
@2InspireAll · Posted 30 Dec. 2021
Absolutely, not. The important question is, do you like them? Just because they like you doesn't mean that you need to sleep with them.
Besides if they genuinely like you, they are going to like you even if you don't sleep with them.
I would be concerned about what they like about me. For example, is the reason that they like you purely physical attraction?
Ask, you never know the response you may get. Initially, physical attraction may be primary. These days in the midst of pandemic central it pays to get to know folks well to be sure that any risks taken are truly worth the time etc.